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Each and every single day is different

The sunrises and sets in different places and the clouds form never before seen shapes.

Tomorrows future becomes clearer and yesterdays memories fade.

Even when we feel as though life is “same old, same old”, each day is completely unique. Our problem is not that we don’t know that each day is different.Our problem is that we fail to slow down
enough to notice.

After a year of taking photos every day I took a break. I am only now realising that I no longer slow down to notice the changes each day.

Tomorrow is a different day.

Resolve to slow down enough to notice?

 

What do you do?

Oh, what do I do?

Well “I run a business that provides training and recruitment services to the transport and logistics industry”. This has been my answer in the past and it is fair to say that usually stops the conversation dead. (As it turns out transport is boring and most people have no idea what logistics is.)

At more social gatherings I have answered “oh, I buy and sell people for a living”, this kills the conversation just as quick but I do have the satisfaction of the priceless “wacko” expressions it generates.

Recently, as a part of my journey to be more outward, I decided to change the way I answer that question. I now say words to the effect of:

“I’m a Social Entrepreneur, I am involved in various businesses and charities for the purpose of enabling social change”. 

The reason I have changed what I say, is because I am passionate about more than just Agoge which is my day job. I am passionate about Agora, Good, CBC, WOL, and SIMP.  I am also passionate about family and friends and strangers because through all of them and in them I make a small social changes for the better in this world.

The implication: Generally when someone asks us “what we do?”, we answer with our job, when in reality we do so much more.

So, what do you do?

The beaches of Tauranga it would seem are laden with treasure.

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The beaches of Tauranga it would seem are laden with treasure. On a number of recent visits I have seen older people with metal detectors in hand, combing the beach for precious treasures buried in the sand.

They are the new treasure hunters, no X marks the spot needed.

As I watched them I realise that we all search for treasure. We are all treasure hunters, in a restless pursuit of things to make our own. Some of us pursue treasure in money or work or success.Others pursue treasure in family or love or organised religion or God.

I have thought about what Jesus said, “Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.”

It reminded me to think about the things I am pursuing. It reminded me that they are a display of my heart.

The winds of change are blowing

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I remember sitting at a camping ground in Papamoa after days of scourging sunshine. The kind of sunshine that you dream of for summer, but after weeks it has dried the ground so much around us, everything had turned to dust. Over the course of the day the wind changed. Slowly, unnoticeably to most, but a significant enough change to indicate the weather was changing.

The next day, as we packed the drizzle arrived and after we departed the rain set in. When you grow up around the ocean, particularly sailing, you learn what the winds of change are.

My final photo for the 365 project on the 23 September was of a wind sock.

I took it for three reasons;

Firstly, to remind me how I still long to
be in the airborne. In 365 days I missed the opportunity to pilot a plane as a
private pilot. I continually look at the sky and long to fly.

Second, to remind me of how windy it was in September. It’s windy every year around the equinox but most people forget that we get windy weather as the winds of change signal a season change.

Finally, personally I feel like the winds
of change are blowing. I am not sure where the metaphorical weather will lead me, but change after 365 days, is in the wind. I can feel it.

So ends 365 days of photos. 365 days of my life.

What’s next?

 

Dead and Useless?

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James said, “What good is it, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone?

Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing, and you say, ‘Good-bye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well’—but then you don’t give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?

So you see, faith by itself isn’t enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless.”

This is a photo of Charles Mareu talking to a resident of Wailea Settlement in Suva. Charles & Tina don’t have much, and yet they don’t talk about compassion and caring for the poor, they live it.

Their faith is proved real.

Their faith is alive!

This morning I asked God to convict people as we talked at CBC about being compassionate.

Instead He convicted me.

Deeply.

364|365 Dead End

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The tedious drive from Auckland turned into an expedition of sorts as I tried new ways home. Unfortunately heading down unfamiliar roads without a map can easily lead to a dead-end.In one such dead-end as the road narrowed I spotted a small cemetery and paused to take photo 364. Strolling around the bleak relics of other peoples memories for loved ones, I stumbled across this
gravestone for Olive.

‘Beloved wife of Thomas Nicol, Died 17 August 1907, Aged 23. Thy will be done’.

I wondered if Olive and Thomas were distant relatives of mine, then pondered how she might have died at such a young age. I thought about how unlikely it was that anyone remained alive that remembers
Olive.

Driving back out of the dead end road I resolved again not to let my life be a dead end.

I’m not so much worried if people don’t remember me in a 100 years time, but more worried if people will remember me for what I have done in the last 10 years, or perhaps more importantly, will
they remember me for what I will do in the next 10 years of my life.  

Days 361 to 363


361|365 Nephew – My Uncle Terry left a legacy in my life. He was an awesome uncle. His legacy is that I might be an awesome uncle to my nephews and nieces. (picture of Thomas and Jayden having fun)
 


362|365 The Mount – Back in Tauranga again and whenever I am there the ocean pulls me to it, just as gravity ultimately draws this bird back to earth. Jim and I used to talk about living in Tauranga and how if we lived there we probably wouldn't go to the beach as often. We were right, Jim now lives in Tauranga, and I live in New Zealands largest inland city. I go to the beach more often than he does.
 


363|365 Cows – The 365 project of a person living in the Waikato would simply not be an accurate picture of life, without a picture of a cow. I noticed today that it has the number 361 one, maybe I should have taken this photo two days ago.

 

Days 353 – 360


353|365 Beaten – Kyla's team (Rototuna Green) about to do the post game 'three cheers' after losing the playoff for 3rd/4th to the Te Rapa Dragons, who wait to shake hands.
 


354|365 Nothing – Almost no photo. An average photo of nothing for an average day of nothing
 


355|365 Salt Air – Love the beach, love the salt air, it invigorates me and ignites my grey matter and helps me think and helps me pray.
 


356|365 Flood – Beyond the picnic table, completely below the water is the jetty I often sit on and have my lunch. You can see a picture of the same spot in my Day Zero picture


357|365 Growing Up – This is Kyla in her school production (Jacob her cousin is in the background). As I sat and watched I realised that my Daughters are growing up. Very very scary!
 


358|365 Moon – Not a great shot, but the moon always amazes me.
 


360|361 Bubble – Some people live there life in a bubble. Not saying Keren does though.
 


359|365 Lightning – Huge lightning and thunder storm on Friday night in Hamilton. Love my new camera made this shot easier to the point of cheating.

 

347|365 My Dad – A poem by Talia read at Fathers Day Service at CBC.

Day347.jpg 347|365 My Dad – A poem by Talia (8) written and read at Fathers Day Service at CBC.

'Have you ever seen a grey haired man walking down the street? 

Perhaps in work clothes going to buy himself a treat?

Well I have!

Did he look… Awesome, Amazing, Friendly, Competitive, Comforting and Special?

That’s my Dad!

Have you ever seen a brown eyed Man driving over the speed limit?
Are there Daring, Disguised Police eyes staring at him by the Minute?

Well I have!

That’s my Dad!

My Dad is like a treasure, a best friend, an amazing Dad. He is worth more to me than 1,000,000 gold coins because he’s my Dad.'

Awesome poem Talia, Thank You.

 

Empty | Winter Blues

Day330.jpgMet, know and have heard of bundles of people, lately who are not themselves. Thy feel flat, down and maybe a little bit empty. Much of it I’m sure is the winter blues.
 
Well, if you are one of those people I have a solution. At this time of year the playgrounds are practically empty. No kids, particularly during the day.
 
So head down to the park, why not take a friend. Then forget that you’re meant to ‘behave’ like a grown up and jump on a swing.
 
Swing.
 
Breathe.
 
Smile.
 
Laugh.  
 
It will be the wackiest thing you have done in ages, but I guarantee some of the winter emptiness will disappear.

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